Tuesday, December 2, 2025

Elder ElRay L. Christianson, Part One - A Lost Poet, on Setting the Example

For Part Two, click here. 

I had to go through a lot of talk with no references in April of 1972. There's no requirement that a talk have any, of course, and it was fun and interesting to read each of these again.

But finally, I ran across Elder ElRay L. Christianson, and his talk, "Successful Parenthood - A Noteworthy Accomplishment." In his talk, he started off with the following reference. Looks to be...a poem:

 

The Quote

“The sermon for a teenage child

That proves to be most ample

Is still the one that parents teach

By setting an example.”

—Hal Chadwick

 

Nice - but who is Hal Chadwick?

No idea.

As far as an online presence, the man is completely lost to time, as are so many others.

It's sad, but somehow, this little couplet is all that is left of him, and it talks on the importance of practicing what we preach - the hardest sermon of all to give.

It was the sermon Christ gave for all of us, every second He lived, in a way that takes years to see and truly appreciate. The most positive example that could have given, and one that I myself am very grateful for.

However lost Hal Chadwick is to us, he's not lost to God. 

Neither are we.

 

Faith in His footsteps...


Elder Thomas S. Monson, Part Five: Kenyon J. Scudder Sees Ribbons

 For Part One, Part Two, Part Three, or Part Four, click the link to jump.

Finally, in this series from Elder Thomas S. Monson's talk, "With Hand and Heart", we come to the final quote, which in this case is more like a story than a quote. But it also introduces us to a new character from history:

 

The Quote

Prison warden Kenyon J. Scudder has related this experience: 

A friend of his happened to be sitting in a railroad coach next to a young man 

who was obviously depressed. 

Finally the man revealed that he was a paroled convict returning from a distant prison. 

His imprisonment had brought shame to his family, 

and they had neither visited him nor written often. 

He hoped, however, that this was only because they were too poor to travel 

and too uneducated to write. 

He hoped, despite the evidence, that they had forgiven him.

To make it easy for them, however, he had written them to put up a signal for him 

when the train passed their little farm on the outskirts of town. 

If his family had forgiven him, they were to put a white ribbon in the big apple tree 

which stood near the tracks. 

If they didn’t want him to return, they were to do nothing, 

and he would remain on the train as it traveled west.

As the train neared his home town, 

the suspense became so great he couldn’t bear to look out of his window. 

He exclaimed, “In just five minutes the engineer will sound the whistle, 

indicating our approach to the long bend which opens into the valley I know as home. 

Will you watch for the apple tree at the side of the track?” 

His companion changed places with him and said he would. 

The minutes seemed like hours, 

but then there came the shrill sound of the train whistle. 

The young man asked, “Can you see the tree? Is there a white ribbon?”

Came the reply: “I see the tree. I see not one white ribbon, but many. 

There must be a white ribbon on every branch. 

Son, someone surely does love you.”

In that instant he stood cleansed by Christ.

His friend said, “I felt as if I had witnessed a miracle.”


A Historical Attempt at Combining Justice with Mercy, and a Song

Another interesting story is the story about Kenyon J. Scudder and his experimental prison.  Definitely worth a read.

And I don't know about you, but this song from my childhood kept popping into my mind while I was reading this.

So here's your morning earworm from me. You're welcome. :-)