Now that we've progressed to the October 1971 General Conference, we're ready for whatever these references take us.
The first one appears in the talk of Elder Loren C. Dunn, in his talk entitled, "This is My Beloved Son".
Elder Dunn gives a couple of cultural quotes that are unattributable, but then he comes to a delightful reference:
The Quote (with context)
May we take the time
and do what we need to do and want to do with our children now,
before it is too late,
because the days have a way of escaping into months
and then into years.
Like the words of the popular song:
“Is this the little girl I carried?
Is this the little boy at play?
I don’t remember growing older.
When did they?
When did she get to be a beauty?
When did he grow to be so tall?
Wasn’t it yesterday when they were small?
Sunrise, sunset,
Swiftly fly the years.
One season following another,
Laden with happiness and tears.”
Fiddler on the Roof
I didn't even have to look this one up - because I've loved this musical since I was young - the song "Sunrise, Sunset" from Fiddler on the Roof, one of the most powerful musicals ever written for the stage. It translated into a classic film as well.
It's sung during the marriage of Tevye's oldest girl Tzeitel to her childhood friend Motel - two children he's watched grow up, and only now realizes that he didn't realize they'd grown until that moment.
It's a common lament of parents - my husband's father once said, "I went up on the roof to fix something, I came down and all my kids were grown." I've said it a time or two myself, looking at the photos and videos of my own children, wondering where those sweet little faces went. It happened much faster than I expected.
The Lord blesses us with families to give us the opportunity to build joy, but we have to be mindful and not let time slip away from us. We can't get it back if it's lost. But it's never too late to turn around and do better to appreciate the moments we still have...


